So here's the deal. If you send a card to Any Recovering Soldier, it will never, ever, get where it would do some good. Please don't fall for that hoax.
Instead, send them here:
Holiday Mail for Heroes by the Red Cross
OR perhaps you'd like to donate funds - there are lots of good places to donate funds, but since the title is Service Members, here are three related to that...
Fisher House - Kind of like Ronald McDonald houses, but for military families
Navy and Marine Corps Relief Society
The USO - they do more than you think!
If you have links to Army/Air Force/ Coast Guard relief societies, please let me know.
Now, off to figure out where the tree is going this year....